Content of the material
- From A Beginner’s Guide to Pro tips and techniques
- So what is squirting?
- Is squirting an orgasm?
- Is squirt pee?
- Can all women squirt?
- Get Feedback
- The Key To Making Squirting Easy
- Remove The Brakes
- Intensify The Accelerators
- The Best Toys For Squirting (How to Make a Woman Squirt Easily)
- Why Do Women Squirt? What Happens When You Squirt?
- I Still Have 20 More Years to Sing— Bebe Cool
- Tip #4: Invest In High-Quality Lube
- How to make women squirt foreplay techniques for the G-spot
- Lube up first
- Get your hands ready
- Locate the G-spot
- Technique 1: Stroking
- Technique 2: Overdrive
- 3. Give yourself plenty of time to get turned on
- Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal
- 7. Don’t stress about peeing
- Most Common Questions About Squirting
From A Beginner’s Guide to Pro tips and techniques
Squirting is a mysterious event that all men are curious about, yet few have experienced in real life. You may have seen it in porn, but is that something all women can do? Good question.
For many women, squirting is the cherry on top of the cake when it comes to stimulation. If you’re curious about learning how to make a girl squirt, you’ve come to the right place. This guide will teach you everything you need to know about squirting, how to make it happen and which best sex toys for women to use.
So what is squirting?
I just can’t dive into teaching you how to make a girl squirt—you need to know the basics first. Squirting, also known as ‘female ejaculation,’ isn’t necessarily what you see in porn. Female ejaculate is when the urethral sponge (G-spot or Skene’s gland) becomes highly aroused and fills up with fluid. The fluid inside the urethral sponge that leaves the body is what’s called squirting.
Is squirting an orgasm?
Now this is a tricky question. Everybody is different. While someone can squirt, it doesn’t mean they’re having an orgasm. If someone does have an orgasm while squirting, it’s sometimes called a “squirting orgasm.” And for some people, though the feeling of squirting is similar to an orgasm, it doesn’t necessarily feel like one.
Is squirt pee?
Everyone wants the answer to this question. Is squirt pee? The fluid that’s released isn’t exactly urine. Some research suggests that it contains some of the same compounds as urine, but that doesn’t make it urine. In general, urine has a strong odor and colors, whereas squirt is clear, odorless, and essentially tasteless.
Can all women squirt?
Now this question is important. You may want your partner to squirt, but that doesn’t mean they can. Between one-tenth and one-half of vulva-owners have reported squirting, according to the International Society for Sexual Medicine.
This doesn’t mean it’s not learnable. For now, they may not be able to squirt, but after reading this guide and practicing, it could become a reality.
If you follow my techniques correctly, then you will be able to make most women squirt with ease. Of course, not every woman enjoys every technique I’ve just taught you. To find out what she does enjoy AND what she needs to make her squirt, you need to get her feedback…
I mentioned this before in the guide to eating pussy, but it needs to be mentioned again as it’s so crucial…
Get. Her. Feedback.
Passive feedback – The first way to get feedback from her is to watch her face and body language when you’re using these techniques on her.
If her eyes are rolling into the back of her head, she is making an ‘O’ shape with her mouth, and she is screaming in pleasure, then you are clearly doing everything right.
However, if her face looks frustrated, bored or neutral and she is not making a sound, then she may not be enjoying it as much, and you may want to alter your technique slightly. Sometimes sounds of pain and pleasure can be quite similar.
Active feedback – Talking to her and getting specific feedback is crucial. If you have a fragile ego, this can be tough, BUT it will make you a better lover. If you both have an open and non-judgmental attitude, this is pretty easy.
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Active feedback is the best way to quickly improve in all aspects of your love life.
You can get feedback in the moment by asking if she likes something you’re doing or prefers a different technique. You can (and probably should) talk about sex outside of the bedroom too. Get help in this guide to talking about sex with your lover.
The Key To Making Squirting Easy
Everyone thinks that to make her squirt, you need to perfect your fingering technique. They think that if she’s not squirting, it’s because they are not rubbing, not massaging or not pressing the correct way.
Often, this is not the reason she isn’t squirting.
The most common reason that women can’t squirt is that you have not properly released the Brakes that are holding back her sex drive and/or you have not intensified the Accelerators to her sex drive that will make her crazy horny, aroused and ready to squirt. While you can learn more about releasing these Brakes to her sex drive in the guide to turning her on and intensifying her Accelerators in the guide to making her horny, here’s a quick refresher….
Remove The Brakes
There are certain things that inhibit a woman’s ability to let go and get turned on. These include things like:
- Certain medications.
- Bad past experiences.
- Fears about pregnancy and STIs.
If your girl is experiencing any of these issues, then she is going to obviously find it difficult to fully relax, let go and squirt.
But, if you follow my advice in the guide to turning her on, you will be able to remove these Brakes to her sex drive.
Once you have removed these Brakes, then the only other issue that may prevent her from squirting is that you may not have used any Accelerators to her sex drive to make her aroused and horny.
Intensify The Accelerators
These are the things that make your girl horny and desperate for sex. They include things like:
- Her feeling desired and wanted.
- Being with a guy she finds attractive.
- Experiencing intense sexual tension.
- The right type of physical foreplay.
I cover the steps on how to intensify the Accelerators to her sex drive in the guide to make her horny. This guide will give and in-depth explanation and instructions on what you can do to make her crazy horny for you.
Once you can reliably turn her on and have removed the Brakes, while increasing the Accelerators, making her squirt comes down to using the right technique, which is surprisingly simple…
The Best Toys For Squirting (How to Make a Woman Squirt Easily)
I’ll cover the manual techniques further down the article, but let me tell you that to know how to make a woman squirt is a hard manual work.
For example, we don’t hand wash our clothes anymore, we give the job to washing machine instead.
The same way, why destroy your fingers and tongue if you can just outsource the hard work to the toy?
You’re still there driving that thing, but you get to enjoy the process, instead of it being a pain. Any woman will be impressed when you pull those bad boys out.
If a girl has never orgasmed then powerful vibrator is the easiest way to break the cycle.
The same way if woman has never squirted (or are unable to squirt) then the toy is the easiest way to break the cycle and show that it’s possible.
Pro Tip It helps if lady does female kegel exercises to strenghten the pelvic muscles and make vagina tighter. This makes squirting easier.
Here are my favorite toys for squirting that are based on my experience, reading hundreds of reviews and consulting with other sex experts.
Why Do Women Squirt? What Happens When You Squirt?
What makes a woman squirt is basically high arousal that fills the Skene’s Glans with the liquid and then a strong, continuous G-spot stimulation causes her to ejaculate kinda as men would.
Except that woman can do it as many times as she desires.
When she’s squirting it will feel like peeing and orgasmic sensations through the body at the same time.
Sometimes the orgasm will happen simultaneously, but sometimes it will happen before, after or won’t happen at all.
What Does Squirting Feel Like?
“It feels to me much like an orgasm. And at the same time also not at all like an orgasm. It’s a very different feeling, but if I had to compare it to anything then an orgasm comes closest.
Unlike an orgasm it doesn’t always lower after the release. Many times with squirting I get MORE excited and want to have sex more and more.
So someone can keep me squirting for many times in a row if they have the skill to do so.
And the feeling doesn’t have to get less. I don’t always need recovery time like I do with orgasms. “— Susanne Fire
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Tip #4: Invest In High-Quality Lube
If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant that will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her.
You really can never use too much lube.
With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take:
- Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her pussy, and to your fingers and palm.
- Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation.
- Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina.
- While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax.
- Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below.
- My favourite lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It’s cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals, and it’s perfect for squirting.
Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry.
In order to make her squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you, and providing her with reassurance that that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go.
How to make women squirt foreplay techniques for the G-spot
This is the good stuff, grab a coffee and take note big man:
Lube up first
To intensify the pleasure, you should use a water based lube when using finger based foreplay which is what you will be doing here to make her squirt.
A great natural lubricant is grape seed oil, which is also awesome for massaging as well as G-spot stimulation with the fingers.
Get your hands ready
Remember that the vagina is a very sensitive area for a woman, so you must look after your hands… cut your nails, moisturize and keep them clean so they are soft and smooth.
I’d even recommend getting a manicure.. yes I know it’s not manly, but it will make sure your hands are ready for her.
Locate the G-spot
The big “G” is a part of the urethral sponge and is located between 1 and 2 inches (2 knuckles) inside the vagina, along the front wall, which is the top if the girl was laying on her back basically.
As a woman becomes a lot more aroused, you should feel the G-spot swell up and become more pronounced, this is a GOOD sign that she’s ready to be penetrated… but we want to save that for later as the aim here is to make her squirt.
Technique 1: Stroking
Ok so the first the first technique is called “stroking”. To do this, take your index finger or middle finger… place it inside the vagina and go up, so you are touching the front wall.
Now with your finger inside and touching the G-spot, begin stroking backwards and forwards, with a “come here” motion as if you’re stroking it. Don’t be too gentle, you need to be firm.
Start with shorter slower strokes when you first enter, but build up momentum and speed up after a few minutes. Once she’s really getting into it, try two fingers (your index and middle fingers) and use the same stroking motion.
Never use 2 fingers right away, always begin with 1.
Technique 2: Overdrive
Right then… this is where the magic happens. Now that you’ve been stimulating the G-spot and stroking it for 10 to 15 minutes. You should feel it ballooning inside and she should be groaning with pleasure.
This is the point where you want to take things into “overdrive”. For this you will need to be right beside her (like on your knees if you’re on the bed” and use both your middle finger and ring finger to penetrate the same spot.
Now with your fingers inside, you need to rest the palm of your hand on the clitoris, almost cupping it. Once you’re in position, begin slowly stroking, whilst speeding up and then start to pull your hand up and down so you stimulate the clit at the same time.
Speed up some more and be a lot firmer as you’re speeding up…
…Speed up EVEN more…. now some more…. and finally go as fast as you can until she climaxes (squirts) all over the bed.
Now not all women will squirt, but a lot will. I’ve only had one girl who couldn’t squirt and I did everything correctly. You should feel the vaginal wall tighten and put pressure on your fingers, this means you’ve done the job well.
Boom! You’re all done!
By now your hands… the bed and her vagina should be covered in her love juice. Don’t worry it’s not pee, like some guys think. It’s ejaculate fluid which comes out of the urethra, not the vagina.
The female ejaculation fluid comes from the skene’s gland and has a sweet taste to it (due to the glucose contents).
3. Give yourself plenty of time to get turned on
You’ll also want to reduce as many other stressful thoughts as possible. “Remember that, for most women, sex starts in the brain,” says Sparks. “Start the mental seduction earlier in the day.” That means everything from dirty talk to cleaning the bedroom so there’s nothing there that stresses you out.
Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal
You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and making her squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter.
Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused, because its so different from men.
For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks.
Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually you and her will get into the groove that’s right for you.
And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again.
So, take your time and really enjoy the experience.
7. Don’t stress about peeing
A lot of women feel like they’re going to pee when they’re close to reaching an O. But that gotta-go feeling is often sparked by that fluid coming from the Skene’s glands behind the G-spot (a.k.a. squirting), explains Hall.
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And even if pee does come out, don’t stress, says Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and the creator of Finishing School. “Sex is messy and there’s a lot of fluids involved already, so even if it was urine, who cares?” (But if it’ll make you feel better, you can use the restroom before you get started.)
Most Common Questions About Squirting
What is squirting? It’s an expulsion of fluid from the vagina when a woman reaches an orgasm. Some studies suggest that this fluid might just be pee, from the bladder filling up during sex. Another analysis in the 1980’s of the fluid detected urea and creatine which is wee, but in lower levels, so no-one really knows if it’s urine or not.
Why can’t I get my girl to squirt? There are several reasons. She might not be comfortable enough with you or with the surroundings. She’s shy or she’s never actually experienced a squirting orgasm before, so is unsure of what to expect. Take your time and reassure her.
What does squirting feel like? Aside from incredibly wet, it should feel like an intense orgasm which is coupled with a warm sensation due to the fluid that’s produced.
How common is squirting? Not as common as some would think. A recent study showed that 10 to 54% of women accomplished some kind of squirting ejaculate. The amount of fluid released can greatly vary too. This study reported a range from 0.3ml to over 150ml.
Why do girls squirt? Good question and one that no-one yet knows the answer to. It’s unknown to medical professionals as to why women can or do squirt.
How can you make yourself squirt? Start by stimulating your clitoris and masturbate as you normally would. When you feel as though you want to climax, insert your middle fingers inside your vagina, touch your g-spot and begin moving your hand up and down fast. You should be hitting the g-spot which will eventually cause you to squirt.