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How to Prepare for Anal Fingering

Cut those nails and file them down

If you’re the top (i.e., the person doing the fingering), you need to cut your nails hella short and file them. If your nails are long or jagged, you can accidentally scratch or tear the inner walls of the rectum. “This will not only be painful, but it can also lead to issues like hemorrhoids or infections,” Goldstein says.

Make sure that booty is clean

If you’re the bottom (i.e., the person getting fingered), you want to make sure your anus is clean. How thoroughly you clean will depend on how much you plan to take. If you’re new to anal play, and your partner is just going to put in a pinky, you don’t need to wash your insides for 50 minutes. Just make sure you haven’t had a bowel movement in the past hour, and then go ahead and shower to wash your external anus with antibacterial soap.

If you plan on taking multiple fingers, or are using anal fingering as foreplay for anal sex involving a dildo or penis, then you should consider cleaning your rectum with an enema, douche, or shower hose. Remember that feces isn’t stored in the rectum. It’s stored in the intestines and then is pushed through the rectum when you defecate. So it’s not as “messy” as you likely think it is.

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FAQ

What should I do before fingering myself?

Make sure that your finger nails are trimmed and your hands are washed with soup.

How to finger yourself?

It usually takes two fingers and comfortable lying position to start fingering yourself. Before you do so – relax and set the mood to get the maximum pleasure.

Can I find G-spot while fingering myself?

Yes, by trying different techniques and experimenting you can find our G-spot. If you didn’t find it right away – take your time and don’t rush it.

You keep mentioning lube. What should I know about that?

Again, the rectum doesn't self-lubricate, so you're going to have to help it out. And if you're using a butt plug with multiple partners, practice safer sex by putting a condom on it and using a non-oil-based lube before each use, advises Ortmann. Oil-based lubes, including at-home options such as coconut oil, break down latex, but water- and silicone-based lubes do not.

Here's the thing about silicone lubes, though: They're awesome for anal play because they're thick and tend to last longer than water-based varieties, but silicone breaks down silicone. If you're using a silicone toy, grab a water-based lube. Glass or stainless steel butt plugs work wonderfully with any lubricant. But if you're new to butt plugs, start with silicone, as the material has more give than glass or stainless steel.

12. Get off by just rubbing the head of your dick

Richard Clark / Getty Images “Instead of stroking the shaft, I usually press my penis down flat and just rub the head rapidly — and lightly at first — with one hand and the other hand pressed on top for added pressure.” —31/Male/Bi

How to start

First, you need to relax. You can’t get yourself pleased if your mind is spinning around the work or the grocery list. Turn off your phone and your thinking. You need to chill.

Before you start anything from below, make sure to trim your fingernails and wash your hands and toys properly

Take some time off

Sometimes it is not that easy to have all those fantasies right away. If you never use your fantasies, it is fine. Either way, you can use porn, but the only problem that you can face is choice. The variety of options could take you a while. So we would suggest having more than 15 minutes for everything.

Explore your body as often as possible
Explore your body as often as possible

Master it

Perfection can be accomplished with daily practice. If you didn’t reach the peak right away — keep practising and trying to explore your body and feelings during certain movements. Try different toys and positions. Do whatever it takes to explore as much as possible. 

Stress less — masturbate more
Stress less — masturbate more

Become stress-free

We all have stressful daily lives and most likely by the end of the day, we are not really a human but squeezed lemon. Sex or masturbation seems like a perfect option to releave all that baggage behind. Yet a lot of women find themselves even more stressed afterwards because they were too intense to relax and cum.

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This does not mean that once you are not in the mood to finger yourself you should leave it. Quite the opposite, but instead of jumping right into it, we suggest jumping into a relaxing bath with a cup of tea or a glass of wine. That will ultimately set your mind and body to a relaxed mood for you to continue afterwards.

Make masturbation same way as your beauty routine
Make masturbation same way as your beauty routine

Enjoy the journey as much as the destination

Always keep in mind that any masturbation and especially fingering yourself should be an enjoyable process through and out. The more you explore your body and hidden preferences the better the entire masturbation will be. You are tired of how things usually go – change the routine and try to watch a new type of porn or get yourself a new vibrator.

No such thing as too many sex toys
No such thing as too many sex toys

Spoil yourself with a new sex toy

There is no better feeling when you spoil yourself. Such a bossy feeling. Orgasms are one of women’s best friends together with diamonds, of course. So why not to get yourself another sex toy. 

It can be anything you want. Maybe a new vibrator for G-spot, new anal plug or that latest toy for clit with the tongue effect. The choice is yours.

How do you finger yourself
How do you finger yourself

Pick up the phone

If you need another way of stimulation, call your partner. You can send a pic to start the naughty conversation or start dirty talking right away. In case you are in a long-distance relationship — call your partner naked.

Finger orgasm
Finger orgasm

Get yourself as wet as possible

The next step is to get yourself wet enough to start the fun. The wetter the better. Sometimes you are dripping wet, and some days you need a little help. No shame in using the lubrication in any case.

Try to buy lubes that have a water base to protect your vagina. If you want to become wet in a natural way, you can rob your clit while watching porn or fantasizing. Use the vibrator to play around; that should help as well.

How can i make myself cum aka finger my self
How can i make myself cum aka finger my self

Search for the G-spot

It necessary to find your G-spot, but you don’t have to do it right away. G-spot is feeling awesome, but don’t overstress by looking for it and trying to reach it. Don’t forget that you are finger to orgasm, and if that is possible without G-spot, you should go for it. Otherwise, you can end up completely frustrated, which would lead to a lack of mood to continue anything else. We don’t want that to happen.

How to masturbate with fingers or what happens whe
How to masturbate with fingers or what happens when you finger yourself

Fingering yourself

Same here. Do not expect to make yourself cum through the fingering technique from the first try. Some things take time, and this is one of them.

19. Rub your entire body down with some oil

Blasius Erlinger / Getty Images “When I’m really treating myself, I lather myself down in oil all over, smoke a bowl, and go to town with some lube.” —23/Male/Gay

Awesome, Im in. Where can I buy a butt plug, and which one is right for me?

That's a decision between you and your butthole, but I do have some recommendations for you. You may want to buy your toy in person at a reputable adult boutique so you can ask questions of the knowledgeable staff. If you don't have access to a good adult shop or are too shy, lazy, or busy to visit a brick-and-mortar store, you can purchase a butt plug online. Here are some of my favorites.

1. B-Vibe Novice, $130 (Shop Now)
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