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How should my partner prepare for a rim job?

Needless to say, you want to make sure that you or your partner has a clean butthole before you chow down. The good news is that you don’t have to do a full douche or enema before tossing salad. That’s because when you eat a booty, you’re focusing on the external part of the anus. If you happen to have a long and slippery tongue, you may be able to get a half-inch in there, but nothing more. You only need to douche if you’re planning on taking a lengthier penis or dildo that gets deeper inside you.

Really, all you need to do is wash the external anal area with some gentle, antibacterial soap and water. That’s it. “If you’re just getting right down to things, you can do a visual and sniff test and communicate,” Matatas says. “Ask your person if they want to get their butthole ready for your mouth, or if they need to ‘freshen up.’”

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Cleanliness isn’t just important for enjoyment, it’s also necessary to help prevent the transfer of harmful bacteria. “Rimming can run the risk of transferring harmful gut bacteria, like E. coli or salmonella, from the person being rimmed (receiver) to the person doing the rimming (giver),” Matatas says. That’s why you should skip rimming if you or your partner has an upset stomach. Having diarrhea or stomach pain is a telltale sign that you had some contaminated food with harmful bacteria.

It’s important to warm up, too. “A lot of people have this perception that they don’t need to do any foreplay with rimming, but just like with every other type of sexual experience, you want to warm up,” Sinclair says in Men’s Health Best. Sex. Ever.

“Start by teasing the anus,” she says. “Make circles with your tongue, lick it like ice cream, and play with the entire booty. Really get your hands on it. Spank it. Shake it!” Once your partner is warmed up and ready for more, you can go deeper into the rim job.

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7. Avoid licking back to front

Indeed, adding in a little front genitals is all fun and games (read: orgasm). But word to the wise: Avoid licking back-to-front. If you’re a vagina owner, you (hopefully) already know the daily dangers of wiping back to front. In case you don’t: UTIs galore.

Welp, same goes for oral-anal contact if you’re not using a dental dam. Going back-to-front (and vice-versa) can also transmit certain STIs from one location to another. Yepp. If someone has vaginal gonorrhea, for instance, licking lengthwise from vulva-to-anus can introduce the infectious bacteria to the anal canal, too.

Not to mention: The giver could also get oral gonorrhea. Let this serve as your reminder that before you go cheek-to-cheek (hehe) with someone, it’s a good move to talk about your current STI status, as well what safer sex practices you want to incorporate.

What Is Ass Licking?

In short, eating ass is a very intimate sexual experience when you stimulate your partner’s anus with your mouth and tongue. And vise versa. 

The technique can be pretty similar to the one you use during oral sex on a vagina, but many guys say that it’s way easier performing analingus than regular oral sex on a woman. 

1. Introduce the idea of rimming to your partner(s)

Surprise parties can be fun. But a surprise peach parting? Nope! Consent is essential to giving a rim job—and, obviously, receiving one, too.

Your bedroom beau isn’t a mind reader, which is why if you’re interested in rimming, McBride recommends introducing the idea of “tossing the salad” when you’re fully clothed. “It’s always better to talk about a new sexual act in a non-sexualized moment,” she explains. (It feels less intimidating that way.)

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In fact, McBride recommends having this discussion well in advance of getting naked, so your partner has enough time and space to decide whether or not they want to add rimming to the menu.

Once you’ve found the right moment, it’s all up to you on how you approach the topic. According to McBride, coming right out and asking to receive or give a rim job is on the table. For example, you can say “The thought of you eating my ass really turns me on. Does that have any interest to you?” Cheers to being a direct communicator!

But if that’s not your style or comfort level, she suggests saying something a bit less, well, blunt. Try: “Oh, my friend was talking about this experience, and she really enjoyed it. It’s something I might like to pursue.” Or: “I saw an article about rimming. What do you think about trying it?” (I mean, it’s the truth…)

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4 Tips On How To Prepare For Receiving Ass Licking

Now that we’ve covered how to perform ass licking the best, let’s talk about being on the receiving end and what you need to do to prepare. 

While it’s not necessary to make massive preparations, it’s always good bed manners when you’re clean, trimmed, and smells nice for your partner. 

#1: Freshen-Up Before Each Session

Basic showering is very important not only for ana

Basic showering is very important not only for anal play but for regular sex as well. 

No one likes being sweaty after a long day and an evening run and then getting into it with your partner (unless it’s what turns you on, then more power to you!).

And with ass licking, there can be a chance that there are some toilet paper pieces back there, which can be a turn-off for your partner. 

So, a nice quick shower should do the trick, and if you don’t have the time or an opportunity to shower, it’s always great to freshen up with some wet tissues. 

#2: Waxing Is Always A Good Idea

When your partner is down there, they’re the

When your partner is down there, they’re there to eat your ass and not to get their teeth flossed with anything. 

Yes, your hair can get stuck in your partner’s teeth, and you probably don’t want that to happen. 

So, waxing is your new best friend before ass licking!

It’s the easiest and most efficient way to get rid of the hair down there and make everything very clean and lick-ready.

Also, waxing will last longer, so you don’t have to repeat the hair removal process every time you’re getting your ass eaten out. 

#3: Food Is Important

A good healthy diet is crucial for a long and heal

A good healthy diet is crucial for a long and healthy life.

And it’s also crucial for healthy and satisfactory sex life.

So, it’s a good idea to make sure that you’re eating healthy and consuming enough fiber if you’re thinking about trying ass licking. 

It will be easier to douche for anal play in general, and you’ll feel so much better when you’re not bloated. 

Also:

Eating bloating foods that can cause gas and other uncomfortable side effects, so beans or junk food might not be a great idea if you’re thinking about anal play. 

#4: Douching And Anal Bleaching (Do You Really Need To Do That?)

I know that many people think it’s not OK th

I know that many people think it’s not OK that their skin around their anus is darker than their normal skin, but it’s totally normal, and there is nothing wrong with you. 

So, anal bleaching is unnecessary for ass licking, but if you want to do it, I recommend you do your research before you try anything. 

As for douching: 

Douching is an essential part of anal play, but it is not crucial for ass licking in most cases. 

If you’re just thinking about basic, topical ass licking where your partner won’t be inserting anything up there, there is no need to douche before. 

But, if you’ve tried this before and you know that you’ll want to insert things in your ass, it might be worth douching just in case. 

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